Was working with a client, who is putting together gift bags for guests and that got me thinking, is it better to monogram or not to monogram a tote bag for your guests.  I have to say I think I prefer not to give guests a monogramed tote, while cute for the weekend of the wedding it is far more practical to order either cute totes like the above for the women and something more suited for a man, your guests will use the bags long after they return and think of you and your beautiful wedding often.  I am not sure that the tote bag with your new monogram would be used after the novelty of using it that weekend.