The  biggest mistake you can make when planning your wedding is to over plan.  Good news is over planning is the easiest thing to avoid!  It can be so tempting to want to micro manage every aspect of your destinination wedding.   As with anything in life even if you think you have planned for everything some unforeseen thing comes up, this is especially true when planning a destination wedding or any wedding for that matter.   The best weddings are those where the bride and groom just truly enjoy themselves, their mood seems  infectous and everyone benefits and the mood is elevated and everyone will have a great time.  Whether you are trying to select every stem for your boquet or every minute of the guests time my advice is simple do not plan for every detail allow the beauty of your getting married with your closest friends and family in a great destination be all the inspiration you need to have the time of your life and get married while doing so.