When people are meeting for the first time at a wedding a great ice breaker is to do conversation starter cards.   These are cards that have thought provoking questions meant to sitimulate discussion, which before long will have everyone feeling as if they have known eachother forever.   There are a number of companies who sell cards with cards covering a myriad of topics.  I like the sleek look and the acrylic box makes the presentation reception table worthy.   The converstation cards in the photo are from Pottery Barn who has them on sale currently for just $19.99 a box, whether you get just one for the bar or one for each table they are sure to be a big hit.   You can also make you own cards or have each guest make a card, you can have lots of fun with it, why not save the cards in your scrapbook, will sure to create lots of fun memories and help everyone to get to know eachother better.